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Your First Visit

Your First Visit

While Metropolitan United Church is a busy destination all week long, the cornerstones of our week are Sunday worship services, either in the Founders' Chapel at 9:30 a.m. for the Sacrament of Communion, or at 11:00 a.m. in the sanctuary, complete with preaching, choirs, instruments, and fellowship. If you're considering visiting us for the first time, these services will give you the best sense of what we're about. Of course, you can also drop by and see the church Monday to Friday from noon to 3 p.m. , if you'd like to look around, pray, light a candle, or just sit a while.

Here's a "Met 101" to give you a sense of what you can expect on Sunday morning.

A warm welcome is waiting
Everyone is welcome to attend our worship service. It doesn't matter if you have no religion, are of another religion, or if you've simply never been to church before. You will be greeted warmly, treated with dignity, and your privacy will be respected. No one will try to swamp you. We're just happy you came and hope you find some spiritual sustenance with us. We invite you to complete a Visitor's Card if you would like to connect further with one of our ministry team.

What to do when you arrive
When you arrive in the building you will be greeted by a church volunteer who will welcome you and give you a bulletin, or "Order of Service". Sometimes they're busy with a lot of visitors and you may slip by them. If you're inadvertently missed by the greeters, feel free to sit anywhere you like.

Finding your way around the church
Christians have a sort of unique vocabulary you may not be familiar with. For starters, we have special names to denote various places within the church. Here's an overview to get you started:

It's... We call it...

The room where worship is held, with all the pews

Sanctuary

The "performance" area in the sanctuary

Chancel

The big open hallway between the front door and the Sanctuary

Narthex
The table with the ornamental carvings located in the chancel - what Roman Catholics and Anglicans refer to as an an "altar" Communion Table

Sunday school (traditional term for Sunday morning children's programs)

Children's Worship

The Bulletin ("Order of Service")
Everything you need to know about our Sunday morning service is listed in the bulletin you will receive from one of our greeters. We call this the "Order of Service." It's a play-by-play of everything that will happen during the service.

Generally, when something is written in boldface type in the Order of Service, that means that the entire congregation is to speak the words in unison, also called a "response."

Bible Readings

There are approximately 3 readings from the Bible each Sunday, chosen by the Christian church as a whole, which rotate on a 3-year cycle known as “the lectionary". The sermon is related to one of the Bible readings, and generally one of the choir's anthems is too. See the Bible Readings and Sermon sections for more information.

Music and Singing
We're truly a congregation that loves music and are blessed with an inspiring music ministry. We stand up for all hymns unless the order of service says “please remain seated." Some congregations wait until the hymn is about to start before they stand up: at Metropolitan, our congregation gets up almost as soon as the organ introduction begins. If you're not sure whether to stand or sit, don't worry. If you are unable to stand, or are just plain tired, feel free to remain seated.

We have lots of information on this site about music at Met. See our Hymns and Music section.

Communion
About seven times a year, we celebrate the sacrament of Holy Communion at our 11:00 a.m. service, and each week at our 9:30 a.m. Sunday Service. You're sure to hear our ministers say "all are welcome at Christ's table", and they mean it. The sacrament is open to everyone--regardless of your religious denomination, gender, sexual orientation, native language or age.

If you're not comfortable, or feel that you don't understand the ritual well enough to take part, just stay in your seat and don't worry. No one will pressure you to particpate by receiving the elements of bread and grape juice. But, if you do want to take part but don't know what to do, our ministers will give brief instructions, or you can just do what the people sitting around you are doing.

The Offering
The offering is an act of worship for Christians. It is a symbol of our belief that everything we have comes from God. It is also an act of generosity. Offerings support the ministry programs at our own church (including staff remuneration), and various ministry programs across Canada and throughout the world to help others.

Visitors are not forced to participate in the offering ritual, and it is perfectly acceptable for you to let the offering plate pass you by. But you are certainly welcome to contribute. If you'd like a tax receipt for your offering, just place your gift in one of the green envelopes and provide us with your mailing address on the outside of the envelope (pencils are available).

If you decide to make Metropolitan United Church your home (and we hope you do!), we hope you will consider regularly participation in our offering. It helps us do our work. You can choose from many other ways to contribute your time, talents and resources. See our Contribute/Get Involved section for more information.

Coffee time
Following the service, we gather in the back of the Sanctuary for coffee and conversation. If you're a newcomer, please stay and join us. You will have a chance to meet the Ministry team, mingle with other folks and chat, as well as enjoy some sweet treats.

Children
We are delighted to welcome children into our worship experience. We offer Church School from September until June, and include welcome children of all ages, from newborns to teenagers. This program is available for all members, adherents and visitors to the church. In addition, we have quiet space for parents and children if you need to leave the sanctuary during the service.

Children are invited to attend the first part of our 11:00 a.m. service with their parents. About 15 minutes into it, the entire congregation shares in a special Children's Time called "Encountering the Child Within," which includes a carefully crafted tale or lesson related to a scripture reading from that morning. Then, the children leave for Church School in the newly renovated Metropolitan Centre.

Special Needs/Accessibility
Metropolitan is wheelchair accessible. We also provide mobile hearing aids and large print hymns. Pew seat cushions are available from the ushers or greeters.

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